Christmas Is Best Day To Bust Cheaters
December 26, 2012 by UPI - United Press International, Inc.
LONDON, (UPI) – A British divorce lawyer says Christmas Day is the top day for “text message bustings” of unfaithful spouses.
Ayesha Vardag said she has noticed Christmas Day has become the most popular day of the year for suspicious spouses to conduct the “text message bustings” by finding messages sent to or from an unfaithful significant other, The Daily Telegraph reported Tuesday.
“It is really very sad,” said Vardag, whose high-profile cases include representing German heiress Katrin Radmacher in her $160.8 million divorce case. “There is a psychological sense of Christmas being the barometer of how a family is doing. But the other thing we find a lot is that there are a lot of text message ‘bustings’ on Christmas Day, usually because the husband leaves the phone around and the mistress is sending messages.
“We see that a lot … it is amazing how many times that is what catches people out,” she said. “It has just become very obvious and transparent. Husbands will go off and call the mistress and then the wife will wonder where they were or who they were calling, they will either find the number on there or the text message.
“I do wonder whether there is an element of people wanting to get caught because it is an easier way of dealing with it than saying that they want to leave,” Vardag said.